Age: Can Be A Sensitive Topic

Today at the gym, a woman asked me my age. She’s a stranger and right out just asked me my age. We were exercising on the stationary bikes (she was two bikes away from me) and I was reading a book, when she greeted me with a “hello” and asked me what I do to stay thin. I smiled and replied, “exercise and diet.” Then she asked me if I had children, to which I replied, “no, not yet.” After that, she asked my age and before I could answer, she immediately followed with, “Are you in your thirties? You look like you are in your early thirties.” Then she said, “I am fifty.” Her directness kind of surprised me. For some women, unless we are at the doctor or filling out some type of official application, asking our age can be a sensitive subject. Men, for the most part, could care less about sharing their age with others.

For me, age is a number and the most important things are to feel happy with your life (at whatever stage you are at), and to be healthy! I am happy to be at the point of my life that I am at and to have learned from my experiences over the years. In certain aspects, I think I am wiser now than I was ten years ago and I try to no longer sweat the small stuff.

Even though I consider age as a number, I’ll never forget a physical I took when I was in my late twenties, which at the end said, “based on your results, you have the health of a 17-year-old.” Yes, a 17 year-old! Yay! So, as long as I feel good and am healthy, that is what matters.

Age is also in one’s attitude. There are people who are 17 that seem like they are 100 or more, and others that are 80 and seem like they are in their twenties because of their positive spirit and energy! I choose to try to stay positive and in good spirits! How about you?

I saw this test recently (on bitecharge.com) and took it, just for fun. It is quick, with only 10 questions that supposedly determine “How Old You Are At Heart.” Not sure what the questions are based on (the site does not provide an explanation), but I took it anyway. I am 25 at heart, and you?

Do you think women are more sensitive about age than men? When was the last time someone asked you your age? Do you freely shared your age?

Hugs,

Paola

PS – Birthday Vacation at Calistoga RanchThoughtful Birthday Gifts I received. 

What a Difference Make-Up….& a Positive Attitude Make

Hi friends,

Hope you had a nice Memorial Day weekend! Mine was different than other holidays because I spent it dealing with a toothache, a bad one! It started with a small toothache on Friday, it only hurt when I touched the tooth and I thought perhaps I had been  grinding my teeth at night, particularly since it didn’t hurt with warm or hot beverages. By Saturday afternoon, it has escalated to a full on toothache, and was causing me pain and discomfort even when I didn’t touch it. I took some ibuprofen before I went to sleep. By Sunday morning, the pain woke me up and I could feel the pain in my jaw, neck, and up the side of my face. If you have ever had a bad toothache, you know the type of jabbing pain I am referring to.

I called my dentist on his emergency line and by the symptoms, he said I probably needed a root canal. He said he would try to see me Monday afternoon or Tuesday. I told him based on my level of pain, I doubted I could wait until Tuesday.  I’ve had root canals before and know that it takes multiple appointments, and is an uncomfortable and painful procedure. It can also be expensive. I tried to stay positive, by thinking, well this isn’t a big problem, it can be fixed, thankfully I have insurance and a good dentist….positive things I tell myself so I think of it as a temporary situation that needs to be fixed and not a dreadful problem. I don’t think anyone likes going to the dentist or having dental surgery, but I try to stay positive about it, particularly because it usually cannot be avoided and is necessary.

I was a bit saddened because I know a root canal is the end of the natural pulp (nerve) of a tooth…and eventually I may need a crown over that tooth. Then I remembered the saying my grandmother uses, “todo por servir se acaba.” Which means, “everything wears out – eventually – after being used.” I take pretty good care of my teeth, and that tooth already had a filling, so this was just something that happened over time, a cavity got worse fast and it damaged the tooth. So I figured, oh well, let’s just deal with it and get it fixed.  My husband looked for other options for dentists that took “urgent” appointments on weekends and found a few, but I wanted to go to my dentist. He knows me well and has been treating me for close to ten years now. I trust my dentist.

At that point the pain was unbearable and I could feel myself getting dizzy and feeling lots of discomfort. We had dinner plans with my sister and brother in-law, and I was close to canceling, but decided to go. I took some acetaminophen to help with the pain and penicillin as my dentist had prescribed (luckily I had some penicillin at home) . I took a shower, put on some make-up and fixed my hair,  and that in itself made me feel better. Amazing how make-up can make us look a lot better than we feel sometimes!  I felt lousy, but as soon as I saw my sister I felt better. I think getting out of the house was also helpful because I got distracted and wasn’t focused on the pain (plus the acetaminophen really helped).

That night, I took more acetaminophen and tried to sleep in a slightly seated position, as recommended for the blood circulation tohelp decrease the pain. I woke up multiple times throughout the night. My poor hubby also woke up every time I did. It was a horrible, sleepless night.

Monday, the pain was back because the acetaminophen had worn off. My jaw felt locked and I felt sharp pain, more intense than on Sunday. I was exhausted from the pain and the sleepless night. My husband had plans to go practice his hobby with a friend. I told him I would be ok and would try to sleep a bit. He brought me some chopped fruit to bed before he left.  I ate a little, mostly because I needed some food in my stomach in order to take the medication.  I tried to fall asleep and was waking up constantly. Around noon, I received a text message from my dentist asking how I was doing and saying he could see me if necessary. I replied and afterwards we spoke and made arrangements for me to go in for the root canal. I contacted my hubby and he immediately came home to take me to the dentist. For the first time ever, I was looking forward to getting the anesthesia shot into my gums, just so it would numb the pain!  A few hours later,  with the first stage of the root canal completed, I was feeling better. I have to go back in a week for the next appointment. I filled my prescriptions and took ampicillin that night, in place of the penicillin. I also took some acetaminophen. A root canal is endodontics and dental surgery, so it’s pretty serious and can get infected if not cared for properly.

Today, I woke up with pain in my jaw and some bad discomfort from the dental surgery. I tried to get up at the normal time, but was in such pain that I just could not do it. I have only called in sick to work once in the seven years I have worked at the station and that was the time I had strep throat. I did not want to miss work because we had a very important meeting for a project I am working on. So, I wrote a few emails and made the necessary arrangements  in order to go in late to work, but not miss the meeting. I took some pain medication and tried to sleep again. An hour later, I got up, had some coffee, ate a yogurt and took the ampicillin. I took a shower and started to get ready for work, applied some make up and fixed my hair. I automatically felt better….and I looked better.  I had a fever that night, so I woke up looking all sweaty and pretty bad! Amazing what a little make-up and fixing our hair can do!

Luckily, last week we had prepared everything for today’s meeting and I just needed to make a few copies before the presentation. I knew the subject matter and was prepared, as were my colleagues. Our team was very understanding of my situation – and I appreciated it! I could have cancelled the meeting, but knew it would take another month to re-schedule due to the participants. The meeting went very well and everyone was pleased! We moved another step forward on the project, a huge step. I stayed and worked for the rest of the afternoon.

As I was leaving work this evening, I looked in the mirror and said to myself, “I don’t look that bad, even though I don’t feel good.” Ha! So, I took this selfie in the car before I left work. Amazing what a smile, a little bit of make-up, and a positive attitude can do! Overall, it was a very productive day, even though my jaw still feels pretty bad. This too will pass and tomorrow will be better, I never lose hope of that!

Have you had a bad toothache? Have you had dental surgery or a root canal? Have you made yourself feel better on a day you were feeling ill by wearing make-up?

Hugs,

Paola

selfie car may 27 2014

Here’s my selfie, I still didn’t feel well, but at least I didn’t look like I felt 🙂

DSCN0940 These are the new additions to my night stand – at least for the next week. Thankfully, we live in a country where we can have access to these medications and dental care. I try to look at the positive side of things, even when I have a toothache!